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In this podcast (episode #375) and blog, I talk to Dr. Paul Conti, a Stanford and Harvard-trained psychologist, about his incredible new book Trauma: The Invisible Epidemic: How Trauma Works and How We Can Heal From It, the importance of a bio-psycho-social-spiritual approach to mental health and trauma management, getting to the root of our traumas, how we can manage and change how trauma impacts us, and so much more!
As Dr. Conti notes, trauma fogs the mirror and distorts the window. As a result, we can’t see ourselves for who we truly are, and cannot see the differences in other people as anything other than harmful to us, which can have a dramatic impact on our quality of life and health.
Trauma is anything that overwhelms our ability to cope. It takes over the systems inside of us that keep a sense of self. It throws our inner orientation off balance, which can have dramatic repercussions in our lives. Not everything that is negative is a trauma; true trauma leaves us different, overwhelming our ability to cope and function in a healthy way—it sets us on a different path, changing our life narrative.
Indeed, trauma causes real, physical changes in the brain that affect us on a deep level. Trauma essentially changes the instrument that we use to understand our trauma.
It is important to understand the true nature of trauma, as this is the first step to dealing with its impact. As Dr. Conti notes, it’s only when we understand how a disease spreads and is sustained that we are able to create its ultimate cure.
Unfortunately, we live in a world of healthcare that tries to polish the “hood” while often failing to recognize what is going on underneath - how trauma affects us on a mental and physical level. We have, in many ways, lost the idea of trying to understand people and where they are coming from. We often just take an inventory of people’s symptoms and treat them, as opposed to getting to the root of what is happening on a biological, psychological, social and spiritual level. The extreme focus on the biological model of mental health reduces people to numbers, which takes what is happening to them out of context.
Through his experiences, practice and research, Dr. Conti has found that getting to the root of the issue, identifying the trauma and exploring how it changes a person is a major step in healing. We have to acknowledge a person’s unique story and experiences if we truly want to help them learn how to manage their trauma. This empowers an individual to not only understand what is happening in their life, but also to take control over their life narratives and wellbeing.
There is always hope. In his book, Dr. Conti traces a step-by-step series of concrete changes that we can make both as individuals and as a society to alleviate trauma’s effects and prevent further traumatization in the future, including the following:
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2:22 What trauma is
4:50 Why Dr. Paul Conti wrote his new book Trauma: The Invisible Epidemic
5:50, 10:05, 17:30, 27:00 The failures of modern healthcare
7:00 Why it is so important to get to the root of the trauma
10:50 Dr. Conti’s own experiences with trauma & why this made him change his career
32:00 The different types of trauma
38:00 How we can get to the root of our trauma & start healing
40:00 How trauma changes our internal narratives
43:45 Trauma & shame
46:00 The power of introspection
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